As young people, we’re constantly surrounded by the clicks, likes, and posts that come with social media. Many people resent this sudden spike in networking, especially because social media can affect its users in negative ways, mainly on one’s mental health. However, as a member of the younger generation and an avid social media user, I don’t see it to be as toxic as some make it seem.

As a teenager, I’m seeing the growth, change, and the effect of social media on Gen Z in real time every day. In a vastly unpopular opinion, social media brings me comfort. It lets me know that I’m not alone. Whether it be through a post about a cause I’m passionate about on Instagram, a funny video about an activity I’m involved in on TikTok, or a message from someone staying up just as late as I am on Snapchat, social media allows me to connect with my fellow young people in a way I wasn’t able to just ten years ago. 

Relatability

Over the years, the concept of “relatability” surfaced on the internet. The idea that people needed to act a certain way or say certain things in order to relate to others was the key to being the center of attention. And while many still trash others for being fake by trying to mimic influencers and those with more followers/likes, I think the  trend is working. Trying to be relatable has opened the door to allowing yourself to be vulnerable, and allowing yourself and others to feel comfortable reaching out when feeling down.

What I’m seeing now is that social media has reached a point where people are comfortable sharing the less positive aspects of their lives as opposed to only the moments where they were smiling. This lends to people throwing away stigmas that were once held, especially those revolving around mental health.  The mental health awareness movement has especially grown greatly in the past few years because of social media’s ability to share information over a vast distance to an infinite amount of people.

Exposure and Etiquette

The concept of sharing on social media has given millions of people the opportunity to contact others quickly and easily. It also builds trust and technological etiquette. While some may say that all social media does is expose users to strangers and unsafe individuals, it provides teens with the ability to refine their judge of character and learn how to either go to an adult for help or to handle a dramatic situation on their own. Social media is helping teens learn what and what not to post. I know I find myself asking: What is inspiring and entertaining and what will cause a backlash and concern?

Inspiration

I’m inspired by what I see on social media. From clever, comedic videos to posts about young people starting a movement, the actions of Gen Z motivate me to create and explore. Because of social media, I want to travel. I want to start a self-confidence campaign. I want to own a photography studio. I want to try my luck on Broadway or in Hollywood. I want to be a journalist.

Being constantly surrounded by the stories of hundreds of people each day brings me comfort because it reminds me that I’m not alone as a teen in this world. I have people older to look up to and people younger to inspire. Social media is important to me because it shapes our world, and while there are negatives, I’ve learned to look for the positives in spite of it.